Oh Shit, It's The Friend Zone!

Ever see that movie Just Friends? Ever been rejected by a girl that's afraid to get hurt? Yes ladies and gentlemen this is the friend zone.

It happens to the best of us, actually the best of us are the one's put in it more frequently. Oh, you don't know what the friend zone is?! Here let me explain. Boy A likes Girl B, A being a really nice person, becomes friends with B and accidentally begins to have a crush on her. B thinks that they have become to valuable of friends, or even worse no longer considers A to be

potential for a relationship and thus puts them into the best friend category. This is the irreversible sign of the friend zone.

Now from here, when A tells B about how he feels about her, it will result (almost every time) like this

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A- *insert long thing about how they like B here*

B- Awe that's so sweet, But I like the way we are now *A's heart implodes* I mean you're so funny, and such a good friend/guy but I don't think we'd work out. I really hope we can stay friends. Like I can tell you anything you know, I cant really do that with anyone else. We can still be friends right?

A- Yeah of course totally! lol sorry if i made things awkward bet

ween us! (of course this is the last thing that A wants to say)

B- OK good, don't worry, I mean it's a little awkward but i wont let it get in the way of things!

A- OK good I would love to have you as a friend.

Now let's break that down. It consist of several key elements. The girl will put the guy down softly, because she would hate to lose him as a friend. Then she will bring up a random instance about her life that's not relevant to your relationship. She will either apologize or say that they wont work out and lastly (every time) end it with a "but we can still be friends right?"

The elements with the guy is that he is basically "in love" with this girl. He will do anything in his power to not lose this girl even as a friend, so of course (poor fella) will eat up everything she says. He will mistakenly take "good guy" as he has a chance, and " we can still be friends right?" as in the future they might go out.

The friend zone is a pretty terrible place to be, actually most people end up not talking to one another after being friend zone friends. The reason? Well honestly guys just have to much pride. Like really, for some reason a bunch of guys brains cannot compute the fact that they cannot obtain certain girls. They have to learn that girls want guy friends, just as much as guys want girls that are just friends. If things don't click, whatever man things didn't click. Self pity is very self destructive, you must learn to cope because if you don't things will eat you from the inside (like some gross flesh eating disease) and that's just so much worse. I'm pretty good at talking to people so if you get friend zoned you can talk to me, I invented that thing(not really but I am a founding father).

Yes I know friend zones hurt, but for the sake of your soul you have to get through it in a positive manner